I can't really offer specific steps, because that is a long list, however I can offer some guidelines.
TSLRCM first, then M4-78 if you're into that.
Then, I would install the mods which are specifically texture-based only (reskins, texture enhancement, etc). Then any model replacements (without TSLPatcher install)
Any TSLPatcher installs are sort of hard to gauge in terms of compatibility, so I would do those last, and I would be wary of any large scale "enhancement" mods because those tend to create the most bug-ridden installations.