If you really want folks to download this, you're probably going to want the relationship open no matter what gender your character is - in case they have more than one character available. From what I gather, you only removed the conditionals so the dialogue that was originally only for female now available for male. So without an additional branch specifically for each gender, the end-user is going to have to remove the mod every time they make a female character.
As I pointed out in my PM to you, I'm willing to do the splicing for the male entries if you provide to me the file names that the original romanced calls for. (The ones that need changing the gender from male to female not - say - the lines that refer to Quatra and unrelated lines.) But you ought to consider opening the mod like I suggested in first part of this missive.