Hmm. Thats really too bad. I ended up cloning a new entry and repurposing it (removing the “after that you must leave all loves behind” part) as a reward for a companion quest I made, but I was really hoping that it was implemented for real somewhere.
Somewhere I think might make sense would be:
Handmaiden’s dialogue file actually has this very elaborate “you mean a lot to me exile and here is the context for why” which very much echoes Visas’s romance scene. I think that would be a good place to flag it, but the problem would be it would mean you could get both Handmaiden and Visas’s love dialogue. Unless you also change Visas’s dialogue file to have a conditional to prevent her romance scene if you ”romance” Handmaiden.
On the other hand, changing the Telos Academy scene would require changing one file, easily allow for setting the conditional for mutual exclusivity with Visas, but unless some elaborate scene akin to the “Bastila romance enhancement” mod is inserted, then it comes off as kind of hollow. On the other hand, actually implementing a similar scene with a visual kiss would be a great thematic contrast between Visas’s “spiritual/mental” connection and Handmaiden’s “physical” (so to speak, this is highly reductive).