If you were following r/KotOR's mod build and have already installed EE and my comp patch, do not install this Handmaiden/Disciple romance mod, since it will cause mod conflicts. That standalone EE patch was made specifically for players who use both PartySwap and EE without my Handmaiden/Disciple romance mod. That standalone patch was actually made after the release of this romance mod.
If you want to install the mods from the r/KotOR mod build as well as this romance mod, I'm afraid the only option is to reinstall your game to remove all the mods, reinstall the mods from the mod build, then when you reach the PartySwap part of the mod build, follow the steps to install my Handmaiden/Disciple romance mod, Extended Enclave and the compatibility patches.